Family
What's My Name?
Alan Gold asked me about why I had a double name on Facebook and Vocal. I thought I had written about this on Seven Days In but I couldn’t find any trace of it to fill out this piece. I mean this is just about how I got a nickname and appropriated it for myself.
By Mike Singleton 💜 Mikeydred about 9 hours ago in Confessions
The Weight of Almost
There is a particular kind of ache that does not scream. It does not demand attention the way heartbreak does. It does not bruise the way failure does. It lingers quietly, settling somewhere between memory and imagination. It is the ache of almost.
By Aiman Shahida day ago in Confessions
Women History Month Celebrates: Ashley Bookashy
Nearly five years ago I started working at my current job and in the mornings when I first got there a girl in a red Kia parked next to me every morning. As this went on the first few months on the job we started interacting and joking about how we kept parking next to each other, but in time this great woman would end up being my best friend.
By Joe Pattersona day ago in Confessions
She Doesn’t Even Go Here
Outcast, aberrant, different. That’s me… I never quite fit in anywhere. Not in school, not in social situations, or any environment for that matter. I was everybody’s friend, but no one‘s best friend. Good at a lot of things, great at nothing. Jack of all trades, master of none.
By Nicole Attenhofera day ago in Confessions
The Art of Starting Over
Starting over is rarely glamorous. It doesn’t always come with a motivational soundtrack or a perfectly filtered sunrise. More often, it arrives quietly — after a failure, a heartbreak, a job loss, a move to a new city, or even a silent realization that the life you built no longer feels like yours.
By Aiman Shahid2 days ago in Confessions
The Silent Pressure of Being the “Strong One” in the Family
There is always one person in every family who seems unshakable. The calm one. The dependable one. The one everyone turns to when things go wrong. No one officially assigns this role. There is no meeting where it is decided. It just… happens. Maybe you were the eldest child. Maybe you learned early that crying didn’t solve anything. Maybe life forced you to grow up faster than the others. And slowly, without even realizing it, you became “the strong one.” At first, it feels like something to be proud of. People trust you. They respect your opinion. They rely on your decisions. But what nobody talks about is the quiet cost of always being strong.
By Shahid Zaman3 days ago in Confessions
The Empires That Vanished Overnight
History often gives us the illusion that empires fall slowly — that decline is a long, visible process of weakening armies, failing economies, and crumbling institutions. Yet some of the most powerful civilizations in human history seemed to disappear almost overnight. In reality, their collapse was usually the result of years — sometimes centuries — of hidden instability, only revealed when a final shock shattered the illusion of permanence.
By Aiman Shahid4 days ago in Confessions
