fetishes
Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
The Daddy Complex
"Who's your daddy?" It's a question that is used in and to indicate sexy times (especially in pop culture). There is also a group of people, a growing group, that sexualize men who are fathers or who look and act like they could be a dad. What is so sexy about that? There are a few theories, but almost none of them hit on the real reason why dads are so hot, why there is a group of gay men and straight ladies who fetishize them.
By Edward Anderson7 years ago in Filthy
The Line Between Learning and Using
Sometimes, we don't give submissives enough credit. As Dominants, we often mistake a submissives need for leadership for a lack of knowledge. Yes, these people must be lead in the right direction, but this doesn't mean these people come without a skill set and personality all their own. Most dominants in the fetish world have heard the term, "Topping from the Bottom." It's a term that is used when someone who claims to be submissive, is in fact very manipulative, controlling, and demanding. These people often see themselves as true submissives, when in reality they want to experience controlled, submissive fantasies they have constructed. Alone, there is nothing wrong with this, but when bringing it into a kink dynamic, it can often be frustrating, tiring, and harmful.
By Soulless Sugar8 years ago in Filthy
How to Be a Middle Ground Femdom
For so long, with encouragement from my partner, I tried to ramp up my kinkiness in the bedroom to better incorporate more BDSM and dominance on my part. Time and time again my own conscience would make me hold back. Am I going too far? Is he even enjoying this? Is this weird or…? I trawled through the internet trying to find tips on how to be more dominant and what I found I could not relate to. These women who wrote about their dominant experiences had their man in a chastity cage 24/7 and were often very controlling in many aspects that I couldn’t comprehend, but totally respected their commitment.
By Kate Crawford8 years ago in Filthy
My Dom from Hell
I heard a lot of horror stories in the past of S/D relationships, or I heard some juicy ones from some of my girlfriends over wine. I have always loved the BDSM life style for most of my late teen and early adult life. I won’t say I am a hardcore expert, but I have been around the block a few times while looking deeper into the kinky sex world. BDSM is a huge world. It has so many different meanings for so many people. In this day of age, there is a fetish for everything and someone out there that shares the same interests. You've just got to know where to look to find the right person.
By Camille Ballentine8 years ago in Filthy
My First Week Without Porn
When I was in college, I had a serious problem. It didn’t have anything to do with alcohol or drugs, very little to do with lack of sleep or lack of a social life, or anything else one might commonly associate with college students experiencing their first taste of freedom outside of the nest. My problem was porn, and I was hopelessly addicted to it.
By Kyle Foster8 years ago in Filthy
The Allure of Public Sex
“I want to fuck you in Central Park!” So read one message that I received on Whisper, the app that is supposed to be anonymous but has turned into another place for people to hook up. The gentleman (using that word lightly here) didn’t even say hello, that was his first message. Two things that will be unpacked in future essays, first who starts off talking like that and does it usually work? Second, the guy claimed to be straight but knew an awful lot about gay sex. Most importantly though, it got me to wondering about why people are so turned on by sex in public.
By Edward Anderson8 years ago in Filthy
Yes, I Think Women Can Have a Cute Belly Button
When I was 19, before I realized that I loved women's legs, I Googled a lot of actresses in my spare time to see their beauty, but back when I was coming into discovering what I like regarding a woman's physical features, one was really unique to me: the belly button.
By Don Anderson II8 years ago in Filthy
